Shriya's blogs

A thought on getting maturity, or i should say when you are forced to act matured, I don’t refuse this mandatory of being matured, but i am definitely not happy with this forced process of becoming a matured person, why one has to be matured as soon as they step into their 20, why society want you to be matured, who are those who set this age criteria of maturity.

We usually hear this phrase” you are grown up now you should act mature.” Why being 18+or 20+ means you should not listen to your heart, but should focus on your mind. This is may be because people think using heart is an emotional thing, and one should use their brain for being a successfully matured person, but how can maturity be gained by outer pressure and vocal force, force of taunt and unnecessary self-made rules of society, it is something comes from experience, experience of work, experience after meeting different people, sometimes wrong people too.

And as per my way of thinking and opinion listening to such taunt or phrase doesn’t mean one should let that thing make an impact on ones mind, and way of living, maturity isn’t, an answer which can be learned through rehearsing, but it is somehow like a flower which needs a perfect time perfect place and perfect atmosphere to be experienced ,to get it in our nature in our behavior and in our decisions of life or decision of our future.

So stop forcing people to act mature, they will become mature when the right time will come.

Live and let live.✌